Recently I bought a new car. I hate spending that kind of money, and I needed a new car. I just wanted to get it over with. I was going to go in, drive the car I had researched, get in and get out with the new car. I don't do these things often, so how was I to know this would take the better part of an afternoon.
While sitting with the people as we were working on the financing, I was asked an interesting question. Because my "occupation" was listed on the form, the man asked me, what kind of minister was I? I guess I could have answered that in many ways, but I simply answered Lutheran. I found out his children attended a parochial school and therefore he had some experience with the Lutheran tradition. I was going to let it go at that, until he asked me--what is the difference between Missouri Synod and Wisconsin Synod?
He knew all Lutherans weren't the same: Lutheran isn't Lutheran isn't Lutheran. And at the same time, he didn't know that the ELCA (Evangelical Lutheran Church in America) existed.
So I told him, "I don't know all the differences between Missouri and Wisconsin, but I'm a minister in a different Lutheran branch--we are the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America. To my surprise, or not, he had never heard of this. So he asked me what made us different?
I did the easy answers, and the most obvious--though we know there are many. I told him first, I would not be accepted as a pastor in the Missouri or Wisconsin traditions--this authority is only granted to men. I told him that the communion table is open, that anyone can receive communion without being a member or receiving prior permission from the pastor. I said there is some difference in how we understand scripture and said a little more about that.
So anyone can come? I said absolutely, everyone is welcome. We believe all creation is created by
God and therefore worthy of God. He said, everyone? I said yes, everyone. We strive to welcome all people. He asked a few more questions and then I did say to him, yes, we welcome all people and families--including those who are in same gendered relationships and those whose gender identity is not what some traditionally understand.
I was ready for the backlash. Another worker came in and the man I was talking to said, Julie is a Lutheran pastor and her church welcome people in same gendered relationships, all people. This prompted the conversation of how this other person had not been in church in a very long time because his tradition didn't accept him and he felt the judgement. I shared that I understand because not everyone even in our church would be "accepting" but at the same time as the church we believe God is for all people, and in the words of the youth we heard on Sunday, all people belong!
It became a wonderful conversation (as I waited for my car paperwork to be done!). I gave him my card, told him yes, there is an ELCA congregation in his town, but they are also welcome at Ascension anytime.
My point is this--you never know when you will have the opportunity to tell people about a Jesus who laid down his life for the world, the whole world; to tell people that God loves everyone, to tell them there is a place for you at Jesus' table. Christ's world is not one for only the privileged, powerful and the ones that fit a certain mold.
One of the greatest hymns we sing is I love to Tell the Story... because it says both these things in the song--
I love to tell the story to those who know it best! AND I love to tell the story for some have never heard!
What would you tell people about Jesus?
Pastor Julie Bailey





